Hypersexuality Behavior: A Growing Problem

[John Galt?]

Sex is a drug like anything else IMO and you have to be really careful with it.

especially after

...he ruptured his penis.

 

[ufojoe]

Not exactly the same. Bingeing on sex for 4 days straight isn't going to kill you if you
protect yourself. Heroin or cocaine on the other hand?

[Pirate Zone]

Sex is a drug like anything else IMO and you have to be really careful with it.

[ufojoe]

Moderation...

The former leader of my band (Chris) back in Tampa was a sex addict. Once, during some violent
romp with his girlfriend, he ruptured his penis. Ouch! He had to go to the hospital. I lived with him
for a year and have some interesting stories. Once, he brought home a stripper from Mons. It
was somebody he had met before during his frequent time at the Mons. The girl walks in, sees
me and the bass player, turns to Chris and says, "I'm not screwing your entire band if that's
what you think."

Then we had the time he met some potential investor and brought him over the house at
3am. He woke up me and the bass player and made us play for this guy. This guy was wearing
a pair of matching pants and shirt, all white, that said (in black letters) ****, ****, ****, ****
all over it. Weird guy. I could do a good impersonation but not on a message board. And he didn't
invest.

Or the time a Sheriff's officer visited me and tried to convince me that Chris was a con artist and
really didn't play the guitar. Well, Chris WAS a con artist but he was an excellent guitar player
and song writer. I'll post some MP3s when I figure out how to do it.

Sorry for the tangent...

Eventually, his sexual addiction got the best of him. This is him...

http://www.sptimes.com/2006/11/09/Southpinellas/New_assault_charges_a.shtml

[cyberdude557]

Good luck getting Turbo or Java to watch that show...

But I thought it was important to also make aware of this study that was done in Australia. The results showed that men who masturbate at least 5 times a week (especially between the ages of 20 and 40) have a 33% LOWER chance of developing prostate cancer later on in life.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/3072021.stm

Some would also argue that abstaining from sex can itself cause mental illness. Certainly there is some evidence documented on this...rates of pedophilia is higher in the preisthood than in the general population. Catholic nuns also have a higher rate of schizophrenia than the general population. But cause and effect is difficult to determine. Celibacy may have nothing to do with why those rates are higher in church occupations. But it is something that needs to be considered. There is a belief among a growing number of psychologists that sex is a vital element of a person's psychological needs for well-being.

So the science on this is still largely inconclusive and in debate, but interesting...

[BucsGuru]

My wife and I watched the Discovery channel last night about this topic.  It comes on again tonight at 9pm and I would urge anyone who may think they might have a problem with sexual addiction to watch this show.  It gives case studies, and steps to recovery.
It was amazing to learn that sexual addiction many times derives from our childhood, and can cause permanent damage to a persons sex life.  It wasn't just sexual abuse from childhood either.  It was also interesting to learn about the effects of sex and our brain chemistry, such as cortisol and serotonin level.




http://menshealth.about.com/od/sexualhealth/a/sexual_addictio.htm

[JavaBuc]

Joe, I'll admit that I enjoy sex.   I may even be a bit of a sex addict.  But I have never done some of the idiotic things that guy (your friend) has done.   That guy is obviously more than a sex addict.   He's committed criminal acts as well that have nothing to do with being a sex addict.

Here's my personal checklist according to that survey:

- Having multiple sexual partners : YES
- Engaging in sex with many anonymous partners or prostitutes (Sex addicts treat sexual partners as objects rather than social intimates that are only used for sex.): YES
- Engaging in excessive masturbation, as often as 10 to 20 times a day.: 10 to 20 times a day?   NO, but maybe 3 or 4 times a day on occasion.
- Using pornographic materials a lot. Using chat rooms or on line pornography or sex chat phone lines excessively.:  YES, I look at pornos alot.  I've never used a chat room or phone line for sex though.   
- Engaging in types of sexual behavior that you would not have considered acceptable before. Examples are masochistic or sadistic sex. Sometimes more extreme forms of sexual behavior are engaged in, for example pedophilia, bestiality, rape.:  NO
- Exposure in public.: NO


Your friend took things a step further and committed multiple crimes.    I don't think those have anything to do with sex addiction.   I may be wrong, but they seem to have more to do with him being somewhat of a lowlife. 

Ruptured his penis?   How did that happen?  The girl on top was slamming down and landed the wrong way?   I've often worried about that myself.

[ufojoe]

My "friend" was an addict, a criminal, an azz, a former coke dealer, had a huge ego and on and on.
Although, occasionally, he did a good deed and acted normal.

I wasn't trying to say that he was just a sex addict. Obviously, he had lots of problems besides that.

The only reason I stayed with him for so long (3 years) is because he was so talented and gave me a
serious opportunity to make it big in the music biz. I never thought I would have that chance and never
thought about until I met him. His lawyer was the lawyer that helped to get Boston and Aerosmith
signed to their first deals. My "friend" was also from Boston. He made the contact with that lawyer
by selling him coke. He made a lot of his contacts like that. Until he was busting for dealing coke.
His father was a big wig and was able to influence the judge and get him a suspended sentence.
That happened before I met him.

Staying with a person like that, just to possibly make it big and make lots of money, was bad
judgment and I finally realized that I had to get away from him. When I told him I was leaving,
he threatened to kill me. It was like a divorce.

There's a lot more to this story but I'm hijacking the thread.

His ruptured penis came from having sex too hard and his penis getting bent at the wrong time.

Masturbating 10-20 times a day? Holy crap! For me, at this age, that's not even possible!

I commend you for being so open about your stuff. Now post your photo!

[JavaBuc]

I guess it depends if you are using KY and if you are using a woman's vagina to help you with that masterbation.

I guess it depends if you are using KY and if you are using a woman's vagina to help you with that masterbation.

I don't think that qualifies as masturbation.

- Engaging in excessive masturbation, as often as 10 to 20 times a day.:

That's like once an hour. It takes me that long to get the job done. This is like a full time job.

[JavaBuc]

If it takes you an hour to get the job done, you won't be doing it 20 times a day for sure.   Some people can get the job done in less than a minute.   (not that I'd know about that)   LOL!

10 to 20 times a day masterbating is ridiculous.   But I've met indonesian girls who want it 10 times during the night - practially nonstop sex.    I find that if I take a cialis, I can keep up with them.   It ruins me for a couple of days, but it can be alot of fun.    Good workout as well.   By the 5th time, it does almost an hour at times, but the first 3 or 4 I can be pretty darn quick.      By the 10th time, it could be hours before the job is done.   But that's pretty much dictated on if the girl is satiated yet rather than myself being done.    I think those girls must be on drugs or something when they are like that.   I never see them take the drugs, but it's just not normal to be that wild with lust.

The results showed that men who masturbate at least 5 times a week (especially between the ages of 20 and 40) have a 33% LOWER chance of developing prostate cancer later on in life.

thats good to hear.

Some would also argue that abstaining from sex can itself cause mental illness.

Don't have to be a scientist to figure that out!!!

[Bucco40]

Its quite funny that this thread isnt deleted for all the explicit material in it but the talk of Oil and Democrats and Steve Duemig are deleted. I didnt know Oil Exploration was as racy as a porno or masturbation. Quite funny if you ask me.