To me, the first and #1 of all the whiniest is Spurrer.
My second pick would be a toss-up between Lovie and M. Lewis.
Imo, most of the "whiney" coaches are in Colleges, as the "whiney" ones never reach the "holy grail" that is the NFL.
I think if you look, pretty much EVERY great coach whines.
NFL coaches whine just as much as college. I think a few just got fined recently (along with Jerry Jones) for whining about officials.
College I think it gets more press because of the nature of the polling system that ranks teams....