"I think that he would not be accepted as much as we think he would be accepted," Vilma added. "I don't want people to just naturally assume, like, 'Oh, we're all homophobic.' That's really not the case. Imagine if he's the guy next to me and, you know, I get dressed, naked, taking a shower, the whole nine, and it just so happens he looks at me. How am I supposed to respond?"Vilma was accused of homophobia in 2011 when he tweeted: “Grown men should NOT have female tendencies. Period.” When a backlash ensued, he responded: “So of course the homosexual men get sensitive to my tweet and respond all ticked off. RELAX I was not referring to u guys." http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/02/05/jonathan-vilma-gay-teammate-shower_n_4732415.html
What's the difference if sexuality is irrelevant ?Why should a woman feel uncomfortable showering with men if I can't feel uncomfortable showering with a gay man??The difference is there is no difference. It's uncomfortable because that person might be looking at you in a sexual way. It's certainly not because she's never seen a penis before.
Vilma need to get over himself. I'm sure his straight teammates took a look at him once of twice.He's just being a close minded idiot.
Vilma need to get over himself. I'm sure his straight teammates took a look at him once of twice.He's just being a close minded idiot.
Once is one too many. Twice makes you gay.
Vilma need to get over himself. I'm sure his straight teammates took a look at him once or twice.He's just being a close minded idiot.
Once is one too many. Twice makes you gay.
I meant one or two guys but I agree with you tho
Booger ?@lsubooger 6mwith the #bucs a story about a player we highly suspected was gay how it changed how we acted in the lockerrom
Must be talking about Jeff Garcia
What's the difference if sexuality is irrelevant ?Why should a woman feel uncomfortable showering with men if I can't feel uncomfortable showering with a gay man??The difference is there is no difference. It's uncomfortable because that person might be looking at you in a sexual way. It's certainly not because she's never seen a penis before.
its sad that youre serious
I take it that means you can't tell me the difference.Thanks for playIng.
I take it that means you can't tell me the difference.Thanks for playIng.
I can. I just wanted to let you know what a sad little moron you are for not being able to comprehend the difference.
So tell us. If sexuality isn't a valid reason for not wanting to shower with someone , what is the difference from showering co-ed.Still waiting .... are you thinking of a way to say that someone with a different set of genitals would frighten and traumatize you without sounding stupid ? Because that is really the only answer you can gone , lol.
The U.S Bureau of Justice Statistics, which defines rape as forced penetration by the offender, states that 91% of rape victims are female and 9% are male, and nearly 99% of rapists are male.IF I CANT BE AFRAID OF SHOWERING WITH A GAY MAN, WOMEN CANT BE AFRAID OF SHOWERING WITH MEN
It's not about sexuality. It's about challenging societal norms. Men and women showering together isn't normal here. In some places, such modesty is seen as silly. In Africa, covering up boobs isn't important.In this case, Vilma is being modest about being looked at while naked by someone who he isn't sexually attracted to. Just like Scarlett Johansson wouldn't want to shower with you.In other words, Vilma is acting like a girl and you're defending him. Do you guys watch the View together? Are your periods synchronized?
So your reason that I shouldn't be uncomfortable showering with a man who could be sexually attracted to me , while a women should be uncomfortable for the very same reason, is that most rapists are men ....Lol...my god you are stupid. If that's the best you could come up with you'd have been better off continuing to pretend the question was beneath you , you sad little moron.
So your reason that I shouldn't be uncomfortable showering with a man who could be sexually attracted to me , while a women should be uncomfortable for the very same reason, is that most rapists are men ....Lol...my god you are stupid. If that's the best you could come up with you'd have been better off continuing to pretend the question was beneath you , you sad little moron.
yup.you're an idiot.
That's a bad comparison...A better way to put it is how many women would mind if they were showering with a lesbian?
