Hard for you to grasp that...hence the reason you created this thread...
When did you choose to be straight?
I wouldn't like it, but if I didn't have the feeling he was eyeing me, I'd just shower and be done.Don't really like to shower with anyone.Trouble is, we assume too much at times, but that assumption is there no matter what. "Getting over it" isn't an option.It's not a "hate the gay guy" type of thing, it's personal space type of thing. Who's to say he didn't watch porkys and get ideas? Are you absolutely sure there are no pervy gay guys? You can't, there is pervy everyone.
You and I see eye to eye on most things, but Shaun Smith grabbed a guys by his junk on the field. Want to talk about pervy...
Benchwarmer showers with no one!Seriously, I like my space in there. I can bang my ol lady beforehand, or after, but that's gtfoh time for me.If I have a bad enough day, the beer can come with me, but that's it.The point I was trying to make, was that there has to be a few players, like me, who are honest about their "homophobia." And because of that possibility, it might really come to terms in the near future.I could care less though who whomever bangs in their private time. As long as it doesn't involve me, we're good. I respect others choices in life, but I also expect folks to understand my choices/opinions as well.And we have to remember, if you think I'm "bad" because of my opinion on it.. you would be astonished what some others might think. Some folks aren't even cool being in the same room.
Worry about your own yard, before you go knockin on your neighbors door.
LovieMyBucs: "It's hard for gay bashers and bible huggers to grasp that."Actually, almost everyone else in the thread has said the same damn thing. Seems hard for you to grasp that.
I am uncomfortable with a male or female watching me shower.If they have any erotic feeling toward guys it's a no go for me.If they passed some nfl rule that said gay guys were allowed to shower with everyone else, I would just shower elsewhere. Very simple.I don't hate gays, but to say I'm "comfortable" letting them watch me shower, or even in the room, would be a lie.To me, a gay man's eyes might as well be female eyes. Sorry if this whatever pc belief isn't shared, but no, I couldn't be cool with it.Now, if they want to be friends in a normal setting, I have absolutely no problem with that (same goes for females, les or straight).
What makes you think they'd be 'watching' you shower? Are you that irresistable?
Bench, I don't agree with you, but I can respect your opinion on this. And I'm sure a lot of other people feel the same way. If you look at it from the outside though, you're saying that you are comfortable getting naked and showering with any guy, unless he's gay. I think the whole shower thing is pretty questionable as it is. I wouldn't be real comfortable getting naked and showering with dudes. I'd much rather shower with a woman. But it's the same type of hypocrisy as the Boy Scouts. They want to make a group of just boys, and they wear scarves and shower and sleep together, but they don't want to allow any gay kids in. If you want to keep gay people out then don't make it so attractive to them, ha.
LovieMyBucs: "It's hard for gay bashers and bible huggers to grasp that."Actually, almost everyone else in the thread has said the same damn thing. Seems hard for you to grasp that.
Hey retard obviously I'm taking shots at all the people who were bashing gay people on the shower subject hence the title. So you're too retarded to see those things.
No one was bashing gay people , they just don't want to hang out naked with them. You still aren't grasping
No one was bashing gay people , they just don't want to hang out naked with them. You still aren't grasping
There were a few who were. Don't worry I didn't include you in the group.
No one was bashing gay people , they just don't want to hang out naked with them. You still aren't grasping
But they'd be ok with showering with Shaun Smith in the room.
Idk what you are reaching for guys, but homophobia is just as tough to "cure" as homosexual tendencies.People have their preferences, ..that it, that's all, no more to discuss.
You seem to think the act of showering is some sort of act of friendship and acceptance. It's not . It's a shower. Showering involves being naked , which means you don't want to do it with someone who could be looking at you sexually. It's uncomfortable. Plain and simple. Their past arrest record , as far as the shower itself goes , is irrelevant.Amazing this has to be explained.
LovieMyBucs: "It's hard for gay bashers and bible huggers to grasp that."Actually, almost everyone else in the thread has said the same damn thing. Seems hard for you to grasp that.
Hey retard obviously I'm taking shots at all the people who were bashing gay people on the shower subject hence the title. So you're too retarded to see those things.
Funny how you try to take the PC high rode and take swings at anyone that doesn't want to shower with a gay man, yet you stoop to calling people retards.F'ing hypocrite.
LovieMyBucs: "It's hard for gay bashers and bible huggers to grasp that."Actually, almost everyone else in the thread has said the same damn thing. Seems hard for you to grasp that.
Hey retard obviously I'm taking shots at all the people who were bashing gay people on the shower subject hence the title. So you're too retarded to see those things.
Funny how you try to take the PC high rode and take swings at anyone that doesn't want to shower with a gay man, yet you stoop to calling people retards.F'ing hypocrite.
What the F are you even blabbing about? People bashing gay people is totally different than calling someone a retard... Huge difference... Retard...
